Christmas Recap

Well we're back to Maryland and went back to work today. So I guess now's the time to fill everyone in on the happenings of the holidays.

First, complaints from the airline experiences:
My flight to STL took off an hour late. This was forgivable since they promptly informed me of the delay and the reasoning (bad weather in Chicago delayed my plane). However, after that communication fell apart. I did not even know my flight was boarding, at another gate mind you, until it had already started. Luckily I keep my eyes and ears opened and figured it out.

John's flight to STL took off 3-3.5 hours late. He was also poorly informed. I spent all night checking the status online so he wouldn't miss anything.

On our flight from Dallas back to Baltimore we had to change planes in Kansas City. Apparently that airport hasn't caught up with the rest of the world. We had to go through security again to get to the gate of our 2nd flight. It was insane. That was after being stuck on the plane waiting for an operator to come work the jetway and let us out.

Also, on our plane from Dallas to Kansas City the people in front of us were making out most of the flight. A man who has multiple kids, and a wife (though I could have misheard and it's actually an ex-wife) and a woman who said she had a girlfriend at some point in the conversation. It was gross.

Ok, now an extended family update:
Out of the two aunts with cats, one hates me one loves me, but I didn't see either. The aunt without cats was supposed to come over on Christmas and visit but never did. Who knows what became more important as she never called to say she wasn't coming.

My Grandparents on my mother's side are apparently no longer speaking to me. I got some lame secondhand excuse for why they didn't want to have Christmas dinner with us. I decided not to go over to their house on Christmas Eve because I can't be around my relatives who have cats. Most of my family can't, actually, so I didn't want to leave them home alone while I socialized. This apparently has caused unforgivable hurt to my grandparents, so I'm cut out.

I don't want to talk to my other Grandmother, though Matt and I did go out for coffee with her. We were supposed to have lunch but it snowed and no one wanted to drive in it. And we were busy so our rescheduling was just coffee. It was an okay visit. But this Grandmother seems to think it's ok to continue pestering me about when I am getting married. Even though I told her over the summer something along the lines of, we are happy as we are and may never get married. I don't think that translated properly into her brain. This time she said something like "So, is this any more serious then it was last time we spoke." Which, I guess the answer could have been yes, but really it's not. And what she was really asking was if I was engaged, or planning on being engaged. Mom said I should have responded with "Well, we're living together now so I guess that's more serious then you knew" but she is right that it would have given poor Grandma a heart attack.

So, it has become obvious this grandmother will never shut up on the matter. Thus, I have started to come up with clever reasons why John and I are not married. The truth is apparently too hard to comprehend. And I'm tired of trying to defend those opinions. Here's my favorite:

John's actually a woman so until gay marriage is legal or the sex change is complete, the law won't allow it.

Oh for another bad thing:
Mr. Lewis (step dad) decided it would be a good idea to take his children to his sister's house for Christmas dinner. This sister has cats. Two of these children are allergic to cats. Both were bothered but it didn't require an emergency room so he thinks this is ok. They came home and Mom, Evan, and I all had an allergic reaction. He claims to have washed their clothes, which can help a lot, but we were all still bothered. Most likely there's still cat hair all over his car so even though their clothes were clean when they left his house, they weren't by the time they made it back to our house. Evan and I recovered pretty quickly but Mom was bad. Luckily I didn't have to take her to the hospital, though it was a possibility. This did result in my speaking to Mr. Lewis on the phone. Which was really weird. I haven't seen/spoken to him since I moved to Baltimore. His response to my adamant suggestion that the kids not be around cats ever was "I guess I'll try." Note, I was trying to keep all of us away from a hospital and scold a grown man on his inappropriate behavior while fighting the airlines waiting for John's flight to leave. I was convinced he was going to get canceled, when I really needed him to calm me down after all the family drama.
Ok now to the good stuff:
As her present I took mom to a spa for a mani/pedi and massage. It was so fantastic! It made me realize I should get regular massages, for my back. So I'm looking into that. My nails, though the finger polish has chipped away, still look great. Of course Mom was thrilled as well.

The boys ended up having a great Christmas, despite financial hardships. I helped with that a bit, so it was really great knowing that they loved everything.

We did presents on Christmas Eve this year, to avoid stress Christmas morning. We had cheese fondue and some other finger foods for dinner then did presents. It was kind of weird and we need to work out our time line a little better (we were unwrapping gifts until like 1am!) but it was really great not having to wake up early on Christmas morning. We just went to mass, then the boys left for their fathers. The rest of the day Mom, Matt, and I just sat around drinking.

Our tree with presents


This past semester I wrote a poem about this family punch recipe we have. I was told awhile back that I couldn't have the recipe until I was married. Well we all know how I feel about that! Also, my mom was given the recipe but lost it. And Grandma's response when she asks for a new copy is always "I always gave it to you." Which shouldn't matter, but whatever. Mom of course always said she'd give it to me whenever she got it again, since she thinks the marriage rule is insane. So, it's been a bone of contention.

Anyway, Matt someone got my aunt to give him the recipe and made a batch as Mom's Christmas gift. It requires a lot of alcohol so it was quite a gift! Of course the three of us drank it all week long. So fantastic! Oh, and now mom has the recipe again, courtesy of Matt (who apparently doesn't have to be married!) so it is also now in my possession.

What else? Well John finally arrived on Friday night. We then stayed up until some ungodly hour talking and stuff. Saturday we chilled with the boys and then went out with Julie. Matt came along. Yay beer and friends/family! We did a late night White Castle run after the bar closed. Here some guy came in and said "I want 432 white castles!" Classic.

Sunday I woke up sick, from the cold I had been fighting all week. But we still went exploring. Lone Elk Park for some deer and buffalo watching. And then somewhere else where the boys fished a lot. This is also when John decided to race Evan and ended up on the ground with a scraped knee and elbow and a giant hole in his pants.

Mostly the break was a lot of just chilling, which was perfect. I didn't let myself get too stressed out about seeing everyone or doing everything. We stayed at home a lot and just drank wine and talked. Or I was playing with the kids. A lot of monopoly happened (as Connor now collects different versions of the game and has like 9). And we played Harry Potter Clue. Fun family time.

I guess that's enough for now. New Years recap later.

Oh, I also spent a lot of time playing with Rocky, the best dog ever! Here he is being his handsome self.


And here's Harrison's scary lizard, who used to be tiny and cute but is now big and creepy.